What comes to mind for you when you think about self control? Is it battling something like lust? What about anger? Maybe it’s controlling the words you speak? I think this is something we all tend to struggle with and no one’s perfect at exercising self control at all times. Since that’s the case, what are we supposed to do? How do we have self control?
The Bible has plenty to say about controlling ourselves, why it’s important, and the wisdom that comes with doing so. The Word is also clear that we are in sin when we lose control of ourselves and deny using self control in any situation including when we’re being tempted.
Jesus is our best example of self control. He was human and was tempted just like us so He is able to empathize with us in every single way (Hebrews 4:15). I’m hoping that encourages all of us as followers of Christ, one day at a time, to strive to have self control in any situation that comes our way.
Let’s look and see what the Bible has to say with Scripture on Self Control:
I believe for most of us, there are certain people in our lives that can impact us in a way that’s different than anyone else. Whether it’s a good reason or a bad reason, when that certain person is involved…things are different. For me, Francis Chan has impacted me more than anyone else, and it’s definitely in a good way.
I started attending Cornerstone Church back in 2006 when a friend invited me. It’d been awhile since I was in Church and was only interested because I was interested in this friend. What I didn’t expect to happen was to hear the Gospel for what seemed like the very first time. I didn’t expect to be impacted by this pastor. I didn’t expect to come to realize that Jesus died for me.
Francis preached in such a way where the Holy Spirit spoke through him directly to me. I have no doubt hundreds, thousands, or maybe even millions have been impacted by him as well through Cornerstone, books like Crazy Love, videos like Basic, or even the latest project he’s involved with, Multiply. One message in particular during that year made all the difference for me.
Several years ago, the buzzword “relevant” appeared to capture the Christian community.
Substance over style seemed to drive this movement, as many Christians did not want to be confined to a set pattern of dress, worship or Sunday morning ritual, feeling it a hindrance to their ability to communicate about Jesus in their circles of influence. Out went a lot of khakis and in came a lot of tattoos.
I enjoy seeing the mix of those I go to church with. I see all races. I see all backgrounds. I see all fashion-styles. But most of all, I see people who know they are loved by Jesus and in turn love Jesus.
We have a relevant church.
It doesn’t stop at the church building. Bars, coffee shops, you name it – there are many untraditional places where it is not uncommon to hear somebody sharing the love of Jesus Christ.
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What is the big deal with happiness? When Thomas Jefferson was writing up the draft of the United States Declaration of Independence he penned the phrase “Life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.”
In many ways this phrase has become the dangling carrot of our lives. The tasty morsel that is just out of reach. We can smell it and see it, but for some reason we never can quite reach it.
Is it just a coincidence or did Tom deliberately not say the “acquisition of happiness?” That would have a different meaning altogether. That would imply that one might actually be able to lay hold of this coveted thing called happiness.
The word “pursuit” conjures up images in my mind of a fox chasing a rabbit through the brambles and just as the fox is about to pounce the rabbit ducks into a hole. The chase goes on and on and the fox’s appetites is never satisfied. Pursuit implies an active chase, one that goes on and on.
Not too long ago I was talking with someone who recently became a believer. He made the decision to trust Jesus as his Savior and to be “all in.” What an absolutely amazing experience to just be part of the conversation. What I didn’t realize was going to happen was that I was going to find myself as part of his journey.
There was a comment he made in the conversation that was probably insignificant to him, but was very significant to me and should be to all followers of Christ as a reminder.
Long story short, he mentioned that there was a moment where Christianity seemed to be attractive to him through a conversation we had so he made a decision right then and there – to watch me. He decided that he was going to watch me, my life, and how I interacted with others.
I don’t think he’s alone in this. In fact, I think there are more people out there who don’t yet believe in Jesus who are watching His Church. They may not attend the Church you go to and you may not hang out with them all the time, but make no mistake…people are watching.